AJ | Fulton, NY
Nerdy, affectionate, intense, a little unconventional, and looking for something long term / forever. Homeowner, business owner, philanthropic, nerdy - all good ways to describe me!
I’m ideally looking for a 24/7 TPE Dom for a dynamic. Someone with a penchant for domestic discipline, training& freeuse. I’m a total spanko, iykyk.
With the right person and the right chemistry, I’m open to using my dominant side too and taking on a submissive man as his Domme. I do have experience with this but am definitely more selective in my circumstances to explore this. But if you’re interested, please let me know in your first message.
I’m closed non-monogamous / monogam-ish I have one partner and am looking for one additional person. I’m not interested in an open ended dating situation or juggling multiple connections. Looking to expand my chosen *** and build something lasting.
I’m chubby / thick / mid to plus sized in body type. I’m also very health-focused and have adapted to a new diet and exercise regiment last Spring. I understand that everyone has preferences physically, if this is not yours, please don’t match with me! I’m also agoraphobic (working on it), so a homebody type is preferred. :)
A few incompatibilities to note -
-I do not switch with the same person, if you are a switch, I would only consider you for a submissive role within the relationship
-Pussy eating - if you’re a Dom and you love doing this, don’t message me please!
-Not interested in hookups, casual, “scenes”, or “play”.
Ultimately, I’m looking for one person, one meaningful connection, and something worth investing in. Intelligence, humor, confidence, communication, and emotional maturity will get you very far with me. Thoughtless or “hey sexy” type messages will not be answered.
If you reach out, tell me what D/s structure, ritual, or leadership looks like in your ideal dynamic. Or just say something weird! Please don’t match with me if you aren’t okay with my body type or 24/7 TPE D/s .Thanks 🖤